21 year old dating 30 year old
He said that he really wants to be in a relationship and have someone to share his wonderful life with to make it that much better. If anyone else see's something wrong with this picture let me know. I say give him the benefit of the doubt, but if you're uncomfortable with the showering of attention, I'd let him know to scale it back a bit.
He sounds like a good salesman, talking about his good life and all.
The age isn't nearly so much an issue as the smothering. I see red flags here and it is not the age difference..is his sweet talking, the gifts, the Las Vegas trip he wants you to go on with him, the constant communication so early on.
Either he is a player or he is desperate..I think the attraction has more to do with him figuring at 21 you are naive and would gobble up all his sweet talk and gestures.
There was only one guy I ever emailed back and after talking for awhile and making sure he was legit, we met in a public place.
I wasn't sure I liked him, but he made it VERY clear that he liked me right after the first date.