Sign up for shopittome.com's "Sale Mail." They'll e-mail you when brands you've chosen have gone on sale in your size and in your area. Once I accepted that women were "crazy" (many older guys had insisted they were for years), it seemed to take a huge load of pressure off me.No longer was I trying to rationalize moves that women made that got me into crazy analysis cycles.
I don't know about you, but all of that is pretty heavy.I think the old adage "Girls mature faster than boys" comes into play here.Commitment is a sign of maturity, and it just takes some of us longer. I know if a girl seems unsure of herself in bed, it gets distracting and starts to feel awkward.But if the baggage becomes apparent too early in the relationship, then a guy will probably bail.Also, baggage causes people to put pressure on or damage a relationship, so it may be doomed from the outset. Commitment means that I've decided that the woman I'm settling down with is perfect and there is no one else out there for me.